[jimlo]

So this is something I didn’t expect to struggle with. I thought I had mentally prepared for it — we talked about it a lot, and I was genuinely turned on by the idea. But during our second session, I felt this weird sting of jealousy that I couldn’t shake. She was having a great time, nothing disrespectful happened, but I just couldn’t stop comparing myself. I didn’t say anything to her because I didn’t want to ruin the mood. Is that normal? Do those feelings fade with time, or is it something I need to actively work on?

[katana]

Totally normal, man. Jealousy sneaks in even if you're mentally on board. It hit me the second or third time too — not because anything bad happened, but because it triggered stuff I didn’t expect. What helped me was treating it like a feeling, not a problem to fix. I also spent some time watching and reading cuckold porn that leaned into emotional themes, not just physical stuff. It gave me some weird comfort — like, "Oh okay, others feel this too." Talking with your partner later helps a lot more than holding it in.

[binik]

I’ve seen some couples handle this by building in rituals — like reconnecting right after the session or taking a “reset day” where they focus only on each other. Seems like a smart way to keep the relationship at the center, not the play itself. Every couple’s rhythm is different.

[landscpeingse09]

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